“What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine.” You may have
heard that little saying before and laughed, but if a couple ends up getting
divorced later down the road, that funny saying could turn into reality and
wreak havoc on your life as you know it.
You have discussed the wedding cake, found a Party Bus NYC will love, but have you
talked about the nitty gritty?
Discussing a prenuptial agreement is not easy for everyone.
It’s like discussing advance directives or funeral arrangements, you don’t
necessarily want to talk about it, although it is necessary to handle it sooner
than later.
Richard Carlson, and his wife Kristine Carlson wrote a book
together after having being together for decades. They discussed a few very
helpful techniques. They talk about having a heart to heart conversation to
talk about things that mean a lot to each other or are just difficult to talk
about.
This same heart to heart technique can be used to talk about a
prenup. They recommend entering the conversation in gentle manner and
maintaining a loving and receptive perception.
The same state can often be found after having worked out, or
exhausting a lot of energy on something—but not to the point of exhaustion. For
example, going kayaking, hiking, or other semi rigorous activities. Even
shopping and walking a good bit can get someone in a calm mind set.
You can create the mood by going to an environment that promote
peace.
Avoid talking about it right when you all wake up or just
before you go to sleep. It’s just bad timing!
Don’t try to talk about it when you’re at the
bachelor/bachelorette party cruising on an NYC Party Bus Rental. Trust me, they won’t remember the next day! Having a
glass of wine or one drink could be helpful though.
Start the conversation by reminding them you love them.
How did you and
your partner break the prenup ice? Leave tips for others in the comments!
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